Monday, 6 April 2015
The way our relationship with our partner goes is determined by how well we stir it with our tongue. The tongue has stirred many boats of relationships, marriages, friendships and even families into an iceberg causing huge devastation in their lives. Speaking life into your union goes a long way in making it grow both physically and spiritually, I saw a tweet from Denzel Washington, ‘@DenzelWisdom “A wise woman knows the importance of speaking life into her man. If you love him: believe in him, encourage him & be his peace”.’ This type of words might be few but it’s powerful when spoken from the right tongue to the person that needs it.
The book of proverbs 18:21 say “Death and life are in the power of the tongue” it’s important we speak words of positivity into our relationships and family life. Round the world many people are facing disintegration with their relationships, you have the supernatural powers you need to protect your union from crashing into an iceberg. The simplest things to comprehend are the hardest things to say because we want them to be, if you say them, they won’t hurt, or pull a strand of hair from you, rather it makes you feel free and happier and healthier.
Being truthful to your heart will save your relationship in a million and 1 ways, you can lie to everyone except yourself. Our conscience is that inner friend that is blunt with us when we go offline with our attitude, that inner voice that tells you “hey, what you did was wrong, you know you just messed up, go on apologize and make up. This is where the skill to stir your relationship off the iceberg comes in, when you wrong your spouse and its heavy in your heart just remember what Jesus said in Luke 6:45 “. . . out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks”. This is where understanding your action and accepting responsibility comes to play. When you truly feel remorse from your heart it tells in your eyes. Saying soothing words and apologizing romantically calms the nerves and it gives rooms for forgiveness.
The magical words are words that never crossed our minds, words so few but full of life. Words made so powerful by the tongue that it can mend a broken heart, heal a wounded soul, make a sober face smile, make one cry tears of joy, the list is endless. The magical words that can change the world when we use them at the right time are worlds like I love you, I am sorry, I miss you, I never meant to disrespect you, It was my fault not yours, I accept responsibility for my action, I take the blame, I want to be with you forever and I mean it etc.
Put some positive energy into your tongue so it can work miracles for you and your relationship.