VALENTINE

Valentine

Saint Valentine's Day, also known as Valentine's Day or the Feast of Saint Valentine, is a holiday observed on February 17 each year. It is celebrated in many countries around the world, although it is not a holiday in most of them. Valentine has evolved greatly from how it began centuries ago to this present day, people are looking forward to a wonderful celebration because they want to surprise their spouse or their loved ones in a very special way. 

Numerous couples around the world who are so much in love,  express their love to one another early even before Valentine’s Day by exchanging different kinds of gifts ranging from teddy bears, cards, candy, flowers, beautiful and colourful clothing items, boxed up gifts, chocolate, expensive or cheap bottle of champagne or wine, (it doesn’t matter, it’s the thought that counts and the mutual love shared.) romantic dinner for two, weekend getaway if the celebration falls on a weekend or just treat your spouse to a night of fun and laughter while watching your favourite movie at home.

In the spirit of love and happiness valentine just doesn’t revolve around you and your spouse or lover, Valentine is also showing love to the poor and needy, sick and the homeless. My very good friend Tobiloba once told me “what you have is not yours alone”, when we live for one another that is when our lives becomes more meaningful”. Go visit the orphanages and throw a party out there for them to enjoy and know that someone’s “heart is awake for them” or “make that star of hope shine again in their eyes” by asking them to call you DADDY or MUMMY for that period of time spent with them. 

Go on and carry the babies and imagine how it will feel like growing up without a mother or father. Make this valentine memorable for someone out there. Remember it’s not just about your lover alone; spread it to someone you don’t know because you might be giving someone a second chance at love.

10 Signs You Have Found Your Soul Mate

10 SIGNS YOU HAVE FOUND YOUR SOUL MATE

Hello people, i came across an article which caught my attention and made me think for a while about what soul mates really are and how to recognize one without doubt when you find him or her. Certain people walk past their soul mates everyday without knowing and finally end up losing out on a once in a lifetime opportunity that very few are blessed to enjoy,but everybody wants to experience.

There are people you meet who, for no reason you can explain, you share a connection with on a deeper level than anyone else you’ve ever known. Whether you believe in the kind of a soul mate born from fiction and fairy tales, or simply hope that there is someone out there who is meant just for you.

There are some sure signs to tell if you’re on the right track to finding them. And if you’ve found the one who truly understands and knows you, and loves you still, don’t let them go. They usually only come around once in a lifetime!

1. It’s something inside. Describing how a soul mate makes you feel is difficult. It’s a tenacious, profound and lingering emotion which no words can encompass.

2. Flashbacks. If your partner is your soul mate, chances are he or she has been present in your past lives. You might even feel an odd sense of déjà vu, as if the moment in time has already taken place, perhaps a long time ago, perhaps in a different setting.

3. You just get each other. Ever met two people who finish each others sentences? Some people call that spending too much time together, but I call it a soul mate connection. You might experience this with your best friend or your mother, but it is the telltale sign of a soul mate when you experience it with your partner.

4. You fall in love with his (or her) flaws. No relationship is perfect, and even soul mate relationships will experience ups and downs. Still, that bond will be much harder to break. Soul mates have an easier time of accepting, even learning to love, each others imperfections.

5. It’s intense. A soul mate relationship may be more intense than normal relationships, in both good and sometimes bad ways. The most important thing is that, even during negative episodes, you’re focused on resolving the problem and can see beyond the bad moment.

6. You two against the world. Soul mates often see their relationship as “us against the world.” They feel so linked together that they’re ready and willing to take on any feat of life, so long as they have their soul mate by their side.

7. You’re mentally inseparable. Soul mates often have a mental connection similar to twins. They might pick up the phone to call each other at the exact same time. Though life may keep you apart at times, your minds will always be in tune if you are soul mates.

8. You feel secure and protected. Regardless of the gender of your partner, he or she should always make you feel secure and protected. Your soul mate will make you feel like you have a guardian angel by your side. A person who plays on your insecurities, whether consciously or subconsciously, is not your soul mate.

9. You can’t imagine your life without him (or her). A soul mate is not someone you can walk away from that easily. It is someone you can’t imagine being without, a person you believe is worth sticking with and fighting for.

10. You look each other in the eye. Soul mates have a tendency to look into each others eyes when speaking more often than ordinary couples. It comes naturally from the deep-seated connection between them. Looking a person in the eye when speaking denotes a high level of comfort and confidence. 

Source:  – Organic Health

                                          

                                 "LOVE POEM"

 

 

I know not love 
until the day
 i met you.
The first smile,
the first hug,
the first passionate 
kiss and
the first night together,
changed everything
in a beautiful
second.
Me without
you is like
a heart without 
a beat.
A star without 
the sky.
A bird without
 its wings and
A tree without its leaves.
You are the life in me.

"KISS ME"

                                            "KISS ME"

 

Kiss me before i sleep 

far into the deep.
So If i die,

your kiss will 

awaken me.

If am lost, 

Your tears will 

find me.

If am captured,

your memories

will free me.

If am sick,

your touch

will heal me.

If am troubled,

your voice will 

calm me.

Kiss me before i sleep 

far into the deep.

"LET ME MAKE IT UP TO YOU"

                                                     "LET ME MAKE IT UP TO YOU"

The tongue they say has no bone, 

but it has the power to break a heart. 

When life’s pressure pushes us too hard, 

we sometimes activate the frustration 

mood temporarily in us and unleash it 

on our loved ones without noticing 

the damage we must have or about to do to our 

own sweet and beautiful loved ones. 

Also, turning down a kiss or not responding to a love signal from 

your partner may cause a cold war between you two that could make 

that sweet berry (love) turn sour. 

These are very simple and maybe passive things that could 

cause or ignite problems in a relationship.

If relationship is a textbook, then "LOVE" is its content. 

Taking out time to study the progress of your love lives can be a 

great way of positively affecting your relationship. 

So, make out time to take him/her out, spend some time with 

him/her or do some of those things he/she likes to do that you don’t really 

approve of “but won’t kill you”, play a game together or simply buy him/her a rose. 

One way or the other, one of these or something lovelier not mentioned 

above could be that magic recipe that could take your relationship to a whole new level.

Whenever the problem of over reacting has emerged 

and your partner is no longer happy with you, 

below are some simple and romantic steps that will work for you.

• Since your lover is angry, don’t talk to him/her just write them a short note preferable with the words “I am so sorry don’t know what came over me, you know ordinarily I won’t do such a silly thing I love you".

• Whenever you notice your lover is relaxed, walk up to him or her grab his/her hand slowly and say, I know my actions are childish I promise it won’t happen again.

• Snick up behind your lover and whisper something like this “I feel like making love to you till the world come crushing in on us”.

• When your partner is in the shower having a bath, join him/her with your cloths on,hold them tight and whisper to to him/her “let me wash you clean”.

•  Ladies turn your man on to easy away the tension on him. Did I just hear you ask how? Slowly strip in front of him,hand him a bottle of massaging oil and ask him to do the magic.

• Ladies while serving your man dinner, wear a transparent  gown to show your curves, slowly walk up to him and whispers this word in his ears “Skip the meal and eat the desert”.

• Tell your lover if you have to fall in love again, you did fall for him/her again and again and again.

• Guys do something crazy publicly to make her laugh like screaming “I LOVE YOU” in an amusement park.

• Plan a romantic date for two without her knowledge, romantically blind fold and carry her into the car, drive of to her dream spot, carry her out, help her sit then untie her to an atmosphere of romance.

• Sing your lover a karaoke love song as a way of apologizing for your actions.

Make good use of all the tips I mentioned and experience a romantic “LOVE” life.

Remain “ROMANTIC” Till we meet again in my next post.